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ZAK SPEARS SAYS (Part V)...

Zak:  I hope you will notify us when your site is up. Also, I would hope you could design it in a way such that everyone can be access to it, i.e. do not use any AVS supports. I do not have an AVS password and am not planning to get one. I would rather spend money to buy your videos instead. Nice to know that you don't smoke. Cool dude! I've never smoked myself and will never.  I like your deep voice. Hope you will do more scripting in your new video. Who do you pair up with in your new video? Have you ever paired up with Kris Lord or Eric Houston before? Have you ever think about doing some non-sex movies? So what other things do you do in your private sex life beside fisting? I would love to hear your experience (not to invade your privacy). I've try fingering... God! It was painful. Are there ways to make fisting/fingering in a more pleasant way? I welcome any suggestions.

As far as the web site is concerned, I need to be able to keep kids out of it. I don't want any children getting into it in any way. So if you guys can suggest a way to do this without a AVS, please let me know. I unfortunately have never been paired up with Kris Lord (I got into porn after he left) but would have loved working with him. Eric Houston I know, but we have never worked together either. My suggestion to you as far as the pain from fingering or for the matter fisting, is to buy a series of dildos ranging in different sizes and slowly get yourself used to it. I had the same problem myself in the beginning and used the method I just suggested to you. As far as lube is concerned, I prefer J-Lube.  It is available by mail order only - but you'll never find a more fun and slippery lube anywhere. Other than that, try Elbow Grease - the water soluable solution is good. In my private life I love cuddling, kissing, intimacy is very important to me, not just sex for sex' sake. I can jack myself off anytime - it's more fun and hotter to me if it's with someone I care about.

You're one of the actors in gay porn that seems to really enjoy rimming. I'm really turned on by hot rimming scenes, and hate it when someone looks like they're repulsed by the act. You, Cole and a few others seem to really enjoy it. Is that the case?

God, Yes, I love eating ass as much as life itself.   There is nothing better than looking up a man's torso with his ankles next to his ears and listening to him moan and climb the walls while I eat his ass out.

I've noticed that when you cum you seem to have a rather unique guttural grunt you make, a noise all of your own! Does this just "cum naturally" to you, or is it soemthing you've developed? Is it a conscious thing with you? I know I find it very arousing, almost animalistic!

No, It's not an act unlike two other performers I know of. I have had orgasms like that since I was 12 years old. They just become kind of uncontrollable, which made it difficult when your parents are in the next room.  But hey, what the hell and depending on what I'm doing, it's  sometimes even worse. Take care and thanks.

I just finished all the Unofficial Zak Spears web site and all the Q&A there and all the forums here. I just want to say that I find you increadible and hope to meet someone like you that I can marry and settle down with. There aren't many people that are open minded enough to learn about themselves and other people from experiences both good and bad. Most people just whine about it trying to find sympathy. Hope one day I can meet you and just be able to say "Hi".

That has to be one of the nicest things someone has said to me in a long time. Thank you very much. I hope you find what you're looking for as well.

I grew up on an Arabian farm 25 miles south of Minneapolis. I used to hang around the Saloon and the 90's years ago. Do you still do a lot of riding? Did you ever do any quarter horse shows? It's very hard to find legitimate horse lovers who are gay (there are an awful lot of pseudo types at the gay rodeos). Do you know of any gay ranches in Southern California? I now live in the Bay Area.

Actually, my father and uncle co-owned a quarter house farm when I was a kid, so I grew up on those. They mostly boarded horses for other people. I don't get to ride much anymore to my disappointment, so I don't know of any good places in Southern California. I used to bounce at the Saloon - my roommate Bob was the manager there. I assume you know him or might know me? I like the gay rodeos a lot, beats the hell out of the straight ones. You're right about the pseudo types though. I do usually meet some very nice people there, with little to no attitude.

Yes, I do know him, if you mean Bob B. (no last names here). Actually have known him for a very long time, I was a close friend of a lover of his (Dan). That's a long time ago. Back in Minneapolis the scene has changed a lot. I don't go out there (no time and forgive me, but why bother).

Yes I know what you mean by why bother to go out in Minneapolis. Very boring and the people I've meet are very rude. I always tell my friends the Minneapolis is a great place to store ex-boyfriends - LOL. Anyway, Bob and I were roommates and friends for 7 years - he is one of the sweetest men I've met, avery kind person. I have tried to get him to move his tush out here many times but to no avail. He just won't do it I guess.

Zak, I saw my first video of with you in it when I turned 18 (as soon as I was legally able to rent them). I always thought you had a certain type of charisma that made it more exciting to watch - as I think there are so many "factory models" out there in the business - and it's the same old thing. I own about 4 of your films, and still collecting. Several years ago, you did an interview with Savage Male (I think), and you were talking about your high school experience and such, and how difficult it was for you in dealing with homophobic people and bass-akwards ways of thinking. I carried that with me, after graduating from high school and coming out in college, I started working out, and improving my appearance. I think your comments had a great deal in influencing me to say "fuck off" to the rest of the world, and doing what I knew was right and important. Whether you realized it or not, you have a great influence on your fans. You appreciate them, and that means a lot in this selfish world - that's evident by your posts to this thread. I've got another question for ya, by the way: In the porn industry, do stars fool around with each other off the set as much as the industry wants us to believe? After a day on the set, are you "totally sexed out" and can't think about sex for awhile, or do the actors totally have sex on the brain 24/7? Thanks for your reply, this thread is giving me something to look forward after work - beside my boyfriend, that is.

Yes, some stars do fool around after a movie and some actually date each other. It's very hard to find quality people to date when your making videos. As far as being over sexed after a scene, I can only tell you my experience. You can ask Chi Chi Larue to verify this if you don't believe me but on an average day I masturbate anywhere from 6 to 11 times. I can't help myself (God help my boyfriend if I ever find one). On a shoot day I'd do it once or twice in the morning, then have to wait till the end of the scene to do it again. Then when we were all finished, I'd go home (alone unfortunately), lock the door to my room, throw on some videos (other people's videos), clean up, grab my box of toys and a bottle of lube and I'm in for the night. I'd do it until I couldn't cum any more. Sex on video is not satisfying at all, so I had to do it myself. I was always hornier after a scene than during. Hope I answered your question.

Regarding child-proofing websites, I have looked at many technicques, software, and AVS and NONE are foolproof. (Actually, despite wanting and appreciating the need for a free and open Internet, it IS disturbing to me how easily some sites are accessible to any child with some Internet savvy). Without using AVS, there is some 'push' technology that would require some verification by the website/webmaster. Usually more cumbersome for you - the webmaster. I actually think burying the site below multiple levels of entrances, question/answer screenings involving birth years, and data entry designed to catch fake/misleading data entry can be a good way to go. Of course, what if we oldsters can't keep track of our own birthdates? Anyway, good luck.

I will not have kids being subjected to porn. When they are old enough then they can view it. Also I'm not going to have a site without an AVS. $21.95 a year is not a lot of money for access to hundreds of web sites. As far as I know I don't get any money from it anyway. My concern is for the kids safety. So I will be using an AVS to protect them, unless someone can give me a legitimate answer on how to keep the kids out of my site. By the way, I have 3 AVS numbers.

Everything you say Zak has an eerie appeal to it. Whether it be some intelligent assessment of a situation, a rather definitive opinion or taking about lubricant - everything seems kind of sexy. So we have all read what your type physically is - but if you were to meet on a chat channel and only had to personality to go on - what would you like? After all...the looks get tiring after a while, irrespective of how beautiful someone is...what does a man say to get you and KEEP you interested? I am sorry you don't have someone in your life. I do not either, I seem to keep on finding something wrong with someone.

Sorry, I don't go to chat rooms, with my schedule it's hard enough to answer the posts I get here. Besides I enjoy this more as well. To answer your question, I know, not as friends but acquaintances, what I view as the beautiful people and some of them are the most miserable son of a bitches I know.   Their personalities couldn't get them a dime on a street corner. As well as knowing people that would be considered average (which I prefer knowing) that are some of the sweetest and kindest people I have had the pleasure of knowing in my life. What I'm trying to say, I guess, is that I really don't care what someone looks like. If I'm attracted to him and he has a great sense of humor, can make me laugh and has a great personality, I'd be much happier with him than any model wanna be.

Another thing just came to mind. Do you find it difficult to find the security you want to feel when someone is holding you if they are smaller? It's a toss up for me - it depends on the person and their personality.

Height and body size doesn't mean much to me. I'm 6' 3" (roughly about the size of Rex Chandler, who is a hell of a nice guy) and I've dated men 5' 5" and up. I love holding someone on the couch or in bed with them back against my chest, so that I can nuzzle them from behind and chew on their ears and neck. It's a nurturing thing with me, I guess. I do how ever I find it rare that someone will take the initiative to do it in return. Although I love being held and pampered as well. This Daddy thing can be a pain some times.

Can you tell me which AVS you are planning to use for your site?

Since Zakworship is helping me through the tough spots (I'm new to this web site stuff), I most likely will use the four AVS' that he uses as well. AdultCheck, Mancheck, etc.

Zak...good gawd buddy, get a spell checker! :-)

I'm very sorry that my spelling faltered, I do have spell check but it must have missed that one. I don't usually mention this but you see, I'm very dyslexic and it is hard for me to catch it all of the time. But I try my best to be eloquent in my postings and in what I say. But thanks for pointing it out.

What does your box of toys include? Alone at home is not always a bad thing. What are some of your favorite “other peoples” videos? Fisting intrigues me, but I have not gotten up the courage to try it. What is the biggest turn-on to you about fisting? Do you top only when it comes to fisting?

My toy box, let's see an inventory, 4 various sized butt plugs, 8 different sized dildos, (Khris Lord; Ken Ryker - no problem; Jeff Stryker - tired dildo (time to retire that one); Tom Chase; Mike Branson, plus signature dildos available through Falcon), a fist dildo, a few larger toys, 4 billiard balls, a hole expander, 2 inflatable dildos (a lot of fun), a penis pump, a box of XL rubber gloves, a box of 64 individually packed rubbers (I prefer using Maxims and Beyond Sevens), tit clamps, leather items and a huge container of J-Lube (water soluable and safe with toys and condoms -  the best lubricant you will ever find. Guaranteed to open the tightest holes. It works great for toys and fisting). I have at this time only topped in a fisting scene. I personally have never been able to relax enough to take it. Might be a trust thing -  I don't know. Fisting is not a main part of my sex play. If I was dating or seeing someone seriously and he wanted to try getting fisted and incorporate it as part of our sex play, I'd love to do it. It doesn't come up much. My biggest turn on is that I'm totally into butt play, I love eating butt, I love playing with it after a long shower and a good clean out. I love watching it open and expand around my fingers, toys and hand.

I really enjoy your work and can't wait for your return to videos. I read on the Zakworship site that you took your screen name from the character that Mark-Paul Gosselar played on that old "Saved By The Bell" series because you thought he was really hot. What do you think of Mario Lopez, the other guy from that show? The three of you together certainly would be something!

Anyone who knows me can tell you that I'd do anything for Mario Lopez. I think he's one of the hottest new stars on the horizons. As for a three way, well let's just say it would be great to double fuck the blonde.

Are you still with the Falcon video company? Have you ever been paired up with Steve Rambo?

I haven't done videos for about 4 or 5 years so I don't really know which companies I'm with, so we'll see in the future. I would like very much to work with Falcon, John Rutherford (so cute) and Chi Chi. They were the main companies I worked with in the past, so it would be fun to rekindle some old acquaintances.

Do you remember Wolff, the German boy? I just read his book - I think is only published in Germany. He mentioned that he did a scene with you with billiard balls as toys. Sounded like a funny story.

Yes, working with Wolf was definitely a highlight in my life.  What a hot and talented guy, and so sweet.

Is burnout a major factor in why there's a high turnover rate in porn? I'm sure there are many reasons why people leave the industry, but I was just curious. I've heard that shooting one scene alone can take quite a long time.

I don't feel it's so much a matter of burnout than it is a matter of there are so many new boys wanting to do videos. There is always a prettier face, a bigger dick and a nicer piece of ass waiting around the corner (that does not go for relationships though) who want to make porn videos. Shooting a scene can take anywhere for 4, 5 to 8 hours depending on if there are a lot of factors to work out. I shot for 12 hours on the Conflict and Redemption series. We started at 6 at night and went all through the night until 6 or 8 a.m.

Five years is a long time to be out of the industry. Do you have the same feelings as when you first entered this industry? Are there any specific things you'd like to do now that you've not done or did not have the chance to do five years ago?

No, I don't know how someone could think or have the same feelings they did 5 years ago, unless they didn't grow in stature and maturity. My views and beliefs have changed drastically, so no, I don't think the same way I did back then. Let me think on the second part of your answer and I'll get back to you.

Wow, what a great collection of toys. I only have 2 dildos, leather cock ring/ball stretcher and a penis pump. I only wish I had your selections to choose from. I spend lots of time alone, too. You can really “settle in” for the night with such a range of toys. I use plain old wooden clothes pins for nipple clamps - they are cheap and get the job done. I have never tried J-Lube. I use Aloe Vera Gel - it’s water-soluble, too but dries out pretty fast. I may have to try J-Lube and see what it does. Crisco is just too messy; I don’t have a playroom so I don't wish to have grease all on the floor. It tracks into the rest of the house and ends up on everything. It doesn’t flush out of your guts too well either after play. Your description of a butt play session made me hard. I don’t have your stamina but had no trouble cuming after that post. 6-11 times a day? - Your dick must be raw. Too bad I couldn’t help you rub some ointment on it. But that might just start up something…Do you pump much? I find that it feels great to make my dick bigger, but only disappoints me later when it returns to normal size - but it’s fun while it lasts. I have never gone for the ugly overpumped session, go slow for about an hour at low vacuum. I enjoy the Al Parker pump videos; he was a hot man. Another loss to the industry. Too bad you and he never made a video - it would have been one to remember.

I have pumped for about one-and-a-half years now. No, I don't get that ugly bloated look to it. I'm glad you enjoyed my last few posts, but having a terminal hardon isn't all it is cracked up to be. LOL.

You are truely an amazing man. You handle some really dumb and stupid responces on this forum with the class of a true diplomat. I don't know how you do it. Someday I hope to get to meet you in person and maybe enjoy a great dinner and long walk in the moonlight and talk. Not even thinking the sex part, there's a whole lot more to you than that, something that more should be idolizing other than your sexual performances (not saying that it is not important) but, what some people are missing. Wow! Well if Detroit ever gets its act together with the Casinos and rebuilding, maybe you will come and visit. You'd always have a place to stay here. It's going to be a hot city, just wait and see. Just one more thing - tell that guy to take his spell checker, unlubed, and shove it up his butt. He must have small genitalia and that was the ony way to compensate for it - at least that's probably what Mrs Doubtfire would have said :-).

First, let me tell you one of my favorite sayings, "There are no stupid questions, just stupid answers". I hope that Detroit does turn around and they are able to improve the way of life there, it definitely needs some work. I appreciate the kind words you said in your last post. It was a great gesture. My many thanks.

You may or may not want to answer this question in the open forum but here goes. I have been a seriously working out for about 2 years now. I'm wondering what supplements you may use in your dietary program. I have been using just some basic ones and am looking to add more. I was just wondering what you would recommend. I've sort of plateaued and feel stuck. A friend of mine offered me some "juice" to get over this hump. Was just wondering what your feelings are on this subject and what you might recommend.

First and foremost, I'm totally behind any and all EAS products. I have found them to work the best out of all the others. If you want a really great and truthful supplement guide, go and buy an issue of Muscle Media 2000. Besides being a truthful and realistic magazine, it also has a order form for the 3rd edition of their supplementation guide. I have found it to be very helpful in my bodybuilding and health. It covers everything from creatine to steroid usage (don't start writing in about steroids - they are highly used in the porn industry, this goes out to anyone who just got their underwear in a knot over what I just said). I feel that you don't have to use "juice" as you put it to get over your hump. Best of luck with your training.

I have always been a fan. I think my first attraction to you was your body fur. I find body hair is uncommon with most porn stars, unless they specialize in bear videos. There have been a few hairy men, (you, Bruno, Eduardo, to name a few) that have become stars. Was it difficult to get roles being hairy? Did it keep you from getting roles? Did you have anyone ask you to shave your hair? If yes, did you?

No, no trouble getting roles. My whole persona was about the fact that I was the first gay porn actor that had a hairy body in films since the 70's. No one ever asked me to shave, so I never did. I wouldn't anyway. The funny thing is I sent my pics into one of the studios 4 years before I got into porn and they wanted nothing to do with me.

I just saw your post regarding Chris Stone. That would be a great coupling. Make sure there is a lot of verbal exchange. Your baritone and his great accent would add a lot to the action. We can dream, can't we?!

Yes, I would have loved to do a video with Chris Stone. I was talking about having him as a mate. He is one of the sexiest boys I've seen. I saw him in a place called the Abbey (another gay coffee house in West Hollywood, big surprise, huh?) Jeans, white T-shirt and leather jacket. I was too intimidated to say "Hi", but boy did I want to eat him up. Needless to say he looked really good.

Are there any pictures around of you with your PA? I can't imagine you being any hotter than you were before - but your pierced cock may just send me over the edge.

Nope, sorry, the studios would not let me be the first to show a PA on film (chicken shits), so there are no pics of it.

Your box of toys resembles mine but I don't know what a hole-expander is - a speculum from an OG-GYN office?

Yes, that is one of the ass expanders I do have. I have others that where designed by me and made by my gunsmith for me.

What would be your perfect date? What's your favorite setting for a date? What kind of place would you go to dinner? What would happen after dinner - something else out or directly back to either one's place? When you got back to his (or your) place, what would foreplay be? After foreplay would there be a night of love making or just out and out fucking or something different or in between?

I knew this one would take a little longer to answer so I did it last. There are many, many scenarios or situations I could tell you about that I would consider the perfect date - so I'll just give you one. The perfect setting- since I love anything to due with the ocean, most of the date would center around it. If I had a choice, I would surprise him with two plane tickets to Kauai, but we'll keep it as if it were a date on the mainland. I like taking my mate to Disneyland or an amusement park. I find that people get very relaxed afterwards. I like to hold him on the rides and ever so often kiss him on the back of the neck or his ear (love the shivers). Then after a long day there, we would go home, shower  (together or alone, depending on how long I have known this individual), throw on some shorts and a couple of nice shirts (I wear a great deal of oversized, XXL button up front Polo dress or casual shirts), and then off to dinner. We would have to drive the coast to get to the restaurant. About 6 or 7 at night, in one of my favorite restaurants that I frequent (it has a large variety of food, meat to seafood) - it overlooks the ocean and has a large patio with big comfortable U shaped booths with high walls around them (good privacy). He and I could hold hands (I never gave a shit if anyone else was offended, but I'm careful around kids) if we wanted or kiss. After a large meal, wine, and of course dessert. Hopefully we would have long conversations about everything, hopes, wants, needs, past experiences and future experiences. When dinner was over, the booths are big enough to cuddle in with his back against my chest so I can hold him from behind and kiss his neck from time to time, and watch the sun set. After all this and we are ready to go (now depending on what stage in the relationship we are in at the time, would dictate on how the rest of the evening plays out, and if we're tired or not). If I feel a person is only after sex, trust me he would not have gotten past the first Hello with me. I'm not into sex for sex' sake. (I like jacking myself off more than an empty sexual encounter -  now this might not go along with what most people would think I'd be like and frankly I don't really care, but this is how things work for me). If we knew each other for a while and I am very comfortable with him we could go back to MY place and cuddle (a lot), kiss and sleep in each other's arms. If we were to have sex, it would be making love rather than just sticking my dick up his ass and getting off (hate that). I love going for a really long time when I'm making love to someone, bring him to the brink of an orgasm then not letting him come. Now, considering I like Joey Hart (beautiful), and one or three others that you might know, I wrote this with him in mind. Thanks for the fun questions.

I have a few questions for you and hope you would answer them as you wish. You've said from your last response that you have a lots of oversized shirts. Is that mean you like to wear loose clothes?  Have you ever heard a phrase "I want to see you jerk off" when you having intimacy with a guy? What does that mean? I have no idea. From your experience, do you think oral sex is safe? Some people said it is better to suck with a condom on.  Have you ever encounter any weird things when filming a sex scene? What other things would you do after you've cummed beside cleaning up each other?

1. Yes, I wear everything loose-fitted. I hate anything constricted (the person who created spandex should be shot - LOL). I wear XXL because I have to, I can't fit in XL. 2. If you're asking if a mate of mine has ever wanted to see me masturbate in front of him, the answer is yes. and I have asked him the same. It's hot. 3. Yes, as I see it. Oral is safe. I'm 33 and HIV negative. I love sucking dick and vice versa. Of course, I feel that I'm very selective in whom I'll date and when. Yes, testing is involved in dating 4. Weird like what? Not that I can think of. No, nothing. 5. I don't understand the question. After I cum, I usually like to relax for a while, and hold my mate, then when we're ready take a shower together and either start our day, eat (which is what I like to do after sex or lay around all day and hold, kiss and caress each other).

Loved your post about what you would do with a guy on a date. It's nice to see the good old fashion romance hasn't gone. I also love to kiss, cuddle, etc. rather than just get into sex for the sake of it. I'm kinda new to the gay scene, haven't had anal, and wondered if you may have some advise for a gay virgin!

In the past I have and still do recommend going to your local adult sex shop and buying a series of small to larger dildos and work with them. It's what I did. I hated getting fucked in the beginning, now I can't get enough and I enjoy it all, top, bottom whatever. Take care and happy stuffing.

Hi Zak. I know this may be a bit off the wall, but the other night I had a dream that I went to a party and you were not only there, you were singing! And you were really good. So I was wondering - do you have that talent in addition to your many others? Or any musical talent?

No, you must have had a nightmare. I can't sing that I'm aware of. If I do sing, it's usually in the car with the music so loud I can't hear myself. LOL. That's how bad I am.

Zak, I have to thank you for many hours of enjoyable porn video watching.  I've watched a fair amount of porn videos over the last year, and I'd like to let you know very few actors (gay or straight) display the on-screen passion and true feeling of being into the sex like you do.  Thank you and keep it up.

You're welcome and thank you for the kind posting.   I hope to have many more videos for you to enjoy soon.  Take care.

Zak, no dream with you in it could be a nightmare! I don't care how bad you are, I would let you sing to me any day. So what kind of music do you listen to? Any types you just can't stand?

The list is long on my music tastes. In my truck, you'd find music from all the James Bond movies (and other soundtracks), Marianne Faithful, Celtic music by Loreena McKennit to a band called Sisters of Mercy (title A slight case of over bombing), and a lot of Latin music as well. So I find it safe to say my music tastes run the gambit. The only music you will never hear or see in my truck is country.

Thanks for answering my questions and here are more for you... 1. What can make you laugh (out loud for at least 5 minutes)? 2. Have you ever encountered anything funny when filming a scene? 3. What brand and kind of underwear do you wear? Or, is there any particular brand you like? 4. Do you ever have any problem with the hair on your body? Does it ever get in your way?

1. Everything makes me laugh, just like everyday normal people laugh, what do they laugh at? 2. A lot of things happen on a set that would be considered funny, I don't have a certain one to tell. 3. When I do wear underwear or undershirts, I wear PAPI brand. I got sick of seeing everyone in Calvins. 4. No, my hair never gets in the way. I shave my nuts so whoever is sucking them doesn't get hair in his mouth and it feels better to me.

I was surprised (but pleased) to read that you have Sisters of Mercy in your truck. I just got an image in my head of you as pale Goth in your teen-age years! By any chance are you a fan of The Cure? One other thing, I just wanted to thank you and all the other poster's for keeping your threads friendly and fun. I've read some other porn star's forums and there's a lot of bitchiness and complaining. So thanks for an entertaining way to pass a few minutes.

No, I never really got into the Cure, although I do like some of their music. I did and still do like the group Bauhaus, which is very goth-glem, if you're talking about white faces. Love industrial as well. Thanks for the compliment on the forum. I don't like getting mad with people unless they persist on being jerks.

Zak:  I have enjoyed your postings of recent days, and I've especially enjoyed imagining you with the 3-day stubble, and, when you were growing up, trying not to disturb your parents while indulging in the joys of what comes naturally! Also, thanks for sharing the scenario of a favorite date for you. Actually, I think I've been on that date myself (both the PG and X versions!). They were great - with you I imagine they would have approach ecstacy!  Can you share the recipe you find best for mixing J-Lube?

If you have J-Lube, it comes in powder form. I mix 1/4 cup of the powder with 2 cups water. Put it in your blender on low so you don't burn out the motor and either add more water or more powder to get the desired consistency. I like mixing a lot, because I go through a lot of it. I like it kind of stringy, It is a lot of fun to play with and makes a lot. I haven't had to by lube in 8 months. It's great stuff.

Good answer to the date question. If a few dates like that couldn't make someone fall in love with you ,they are dead (that is if they bothered to get to know you). Joey is in L.A. - maybe you two can get together and have a date. Maybe I'll email him and tell him to read this thread (I like being a match maker {grin}). Same question from a different perspective. Let's say hard times have hit you both for the week and you can't afford going out to dinner or go clubbing. But, you aren't going to spend the entire time at one person's home. This time what's your dream date if you're on a budget. Also, assume that the guy is into everything and that you get to choose your favorite activity(ies) (or non-activities).

OK, first let me tell you this,. I never go clubbing, I haven't been in a bar in 5 and 1/2 years. There is absolutely no reason for me to even bother with them. I feel I would not meet the type of quality person that I'm looking for in a bar situation. I will also go as far as to say that (when I did do, as you say, clubbing) I always went home alone, much to my frustration. Well, what the hell, I'm alive and very healthy so I'm glad. Also I wouldn't ever take a date or my mate to a bar (very tacky!) The person I will or would be seeing would mean far too much to me to ever disrespect him in that way. If he was into dancing, that's fine - he can go out with friends and dance. I don't. If I find out that someone is making the moves on him, then I expect him to handle it in accordance with what we have agreed is proper for your relationship. Off the question but fun. Let's see, the perfect date, no money (like that would happen).  We would drive to the coast and go to a spot that I go too often by myself.  It's beautiful there - it's on the cliffs. I would have made a late lunch and brought it with him and I. We would watch the sun set, talk about this and that (I know that I'm comfortable with someone when I can just sit next to him and say nothing and vice versa). Then go home (mine) and I would make us dinner. When finished, we'd lay around on the couch and kiss and cuddle. You can fill in the rest.

In the movie "The Wild Ones", is that your own truck you are driving when you stop and talk to Wolff? Even though the scene is non-sexual, it gets me so hot every time I see it. You exude such masculinity! I don't remember seeing a hotter scene anywhere. I also want to thank you for taking the time to post to this forum. I think you're the movie industry's #1 star and a hell of a nice guy to boot! I can't wait to see your next video and hope there will be many more to come.

Thank you, I'm glad you've enjoyed the video. No, the truck belongs to Dirk Dahner. He is the director of the Wild Ones. I drive a '99 black 4x4 Chevy Tahoe 4-door.

Did you ever go to England for that James Bond auction? How'd it go? What's your favorite James Bond movie?

No, I'm going to be conducting my bids from home by e-mail and phone. So, no I won't be going to England for the action but I will be bidding on it. My favorite Bond movies are: Thunderball, Goldfinger, The Man with the Golden Gun, Diamonds are Forever and Tomorrow Never Dies.

Can you tell me where to buy J-lube? I hope this isn't question that's been asked and asked.

FROM ZAKWORSHIP:  You can buy J-lube from Nasco Farm and Ranch supplies, at 1-800-558-9595. Their address is 901 Janesville Ave, Fort Atkinson, WI 53538-0901. Catalog number is C08175N, and it's about $8-something a bottle.

I asked Zakworship to post the address and phone number for J-Lube. Considering he was the one that introduced this product to me. I'm sure you're going to enjoy it.